Dan brings up an interesting question in this post:
Obama, Abortion and Friendship
An interesting thing though, happened to me while I was doing research on cross-gender friendship. In my studies on friendship, I began to see how significant personal friendship is to the kingdom of God–to justice, shalom, and a healthy flourishing to community. Whether it be in the Gospels, faith communities, or political alliances, personal friendship is a difference maker in community. I’m not merely referring to Christian community here. I am talking about local, geographical, community both in church and beyond the walls of the church. I wanted to write a book that put cross-gender friendship on the justice, political, and communal map–that is an interpersonal relationship striving for intimacy and justice.
Significant social, emotional, philosophical, theological, ecclesial, and gender identity issues crystalize when a woman faces an unwanted pregnancy. The dilemma of an unwanted pregnancy may be a stark reality at the very beginning–because of a “mistake” or it may arise because of the objection of the father, or it may emerge after an ultrasound. It’s very clear that from the moment of conception onward this is a communal process and decision–no woman has ever made a decision concerning an unwanted pregnancy as an isolated, autonomous, private individual. She may have felt that was the case.
Obama’s words the other night in the Oct. 15 debate on this issue: “I believe that women in consultation with their families, their doctors, their religious advisors, are in the best position to make this decision.”
Could it be possible that the reason why we have unwanted pregnancies and abortions 28 years after Roe v. Wade is not because of our inability to elect conservative justices, but our weakness in evangelical communities in loving our neighbor, in forming deep personal friendships? What would happen if single or married women who were pregnant had such deep roots in personal friendship and community that abundant life, kingdom life and love was present as they faced complex choices?
Could it be that the abortion crisis is a friendship and communal crisis in our churches?
Based on my own experience, my answer to that is YES! I am voting for Obama because I believe the he has the policy ideas to change the environment that would make a woman believe she has no choice but abortion. However, beyond that, friendship and community is crucial. In my own unplanned pregnancy that almost ending in abortion, I eventually came to realize that my material needs would be provided and my family was supportive and I received a lot of emotional support. My family knows how to respond in a crisis. What a difference it would have made if that emotional support would have been there before the pregnancy, before the contemplation of abortion.
Even beyond the issue of abortion, I believe that community is the key. It is one word I hear most often in church services and the one thing I see lacking the most. But that is another whole series of posts.
For today, moving on, Ryan Bolger writes his reasons for voting for Obama:
1) The poor will be better off with Obama. I believe this to be the first question we must ask of a candidate. Jesus promised a jubilee to his followers. He created a community that shared generously with one another. For a Christian to support a candidate, that candidate must look to create a system that resembles this community of sharing. I don’t call it “socialism” — I call it gospel…
2) Blessed are the peacemakers — we must support people who strive for peace. And Jesus was not saying use the sword to achieve peace — it was ‘use the means of peace to achieve the ends of peace’ (why would he say ‘love your enemies in the same Sermon?). I believe Obama seeks to end the war. I’ve been concerned by the strong military talk by both candidates. However, I think Obama is taking a more direct route to peace. We must support the peacemakers to align ourselves with the Sermon on the Mount.
3) I believe Obama will begin to repair the damage done in our relationships with other countries. I believe he will look to bring reconciliation where there are divisions. In Christian baptism, the two peoples, Jews and Gentiles, become one. The body of Christ, made up of many members from many races, is to be one. It is at the heart of our faith that we overcome our divisions while celebrating our differences. For a candidate to receive the Christian vote, he or she must seek to do likewise. In the United States, I believe that Obama will be a force in healing the racial divide in our country. It is a huge task, and we might not get very far, but I think he will move us in the right direction.
4) I believe Obama will bring other voices to the table. Jesus spent time with the outcasts and sinners shut out from the main halls of power. I believe a candidate, to get the Christian vote, must create a space to hear other voices. I believe Obama himself is one of these other voices. In addition, we need to talk to those who hate us, and we need to know why. I believe Obama will do this in foreign policy — and I believe he will do it here in the US.
5) We are to be better stewards of creation. Right now, it appears we’ve damaged the way the earth is to function through driving our cars and consuming so much of our natural resources. We need to move in the direction of better stewardship of creation as we honor God’s gifts to us. I believe Obama has a better plan to move to alternative fuels and energy than does John McCain. I believe, after 9-11, we should have pushed for energy independence for many of our families through tax breaks for solar panels on houses.